Wednesday, August 25, 2010

How to be romantic

There's something about a man in uniform that get's a woman's attention. I first noticed it when I came home on leave for the first time and attended a community dance. Suddenly I had the eyes of so many beautiful women on me. It kind of scared me at first, because they had barely noticed me before. But I did manage to enjoy the attention, for sure.




Romance Found

That's when I first saw my wife, Gertie, the most beautiful woman in the dance hall. Well, wouldn't you know it, she practically ignored me. I was the one who had to win her heart. (I later found out that she did notice, but was determined not to inflate my ego any further.)



Herein began my lifelong learning on how to be romantic. You see, there's a whole lot more to romance than wearing a cool uniform or paying special attention at Valentines, birthdays, anniversaries and holidays. In fact I find these events quite bothersome because they often lower the dance of romance to a guilt-ridden, money sucking kind of phoniness. Now, I don't mean you should not spend money on your sweetheart, but it should never be a substitute for the real thing.



The whole idea of romance is to show your desire and appreciation for your loved ones in thought, word and deed. And to do that you have to awaken your inner romantic.



When you fall in love, you are always thinking of your sweetheart as you go about your day. You find ways to please them and show your passion for them. So if you want a lifetime of love, always be in this state of romance. Don't fall into the monotonous trap of rigid routines.



Too many relationships these days are broken, inevitably the result of poor mentoring, inconsistent attention and selfish expectations. Well now, you don't have to end up lonely or forever seeking another one to fill your empty heart anymore.



Here are some never-fail tips to get you into the heart of romance. By the way, these will appeal to any kind of romance. It is not restricted to intimate couples only.



1. Get Into The Feeling of Romance:



Slow down enough to appreciate the beauty of a sunset, the blossom of a flower, the unconfined wonder of a small child, and so on. For you men out there, this is not mushy stuff, this is just how natural living really feels like. How can you create that feeling of romance with a woman, if you don't try it on for yourself? As they say, "Try it, you'll like it!" It's about getting into the mood for romance in a very effective way.



2. Be Creatively Thoughtful:



Tune into your loved one. Breathe into what you really love about her. Think of a small, special gesture you can do that is outside your agreed upon regular routines and duties.Get creative here: a single favorite flower, a short poem, a special errand, an unexpected gesture, and so on. As you practice, these simple ideas will keep multiplying and you'll never be at a loss.



3. Show Your Affection:



Get to know what your beloved likes. Don't reserve your affection only for your private intimate times. Make her feel special in public too: hold her hand, flirt a little, give her a sweet embrace, toast her at dinner, or cook her a special meal. You'll get to know what pleases her. For instance, I quickly learned that Gertie hates being whistled at in public, it embarrasses her and makes her feel cheap.



These three romantic tips will make you

by pope jerry

About us

my name is tulagha jerimiah..Am a nigerian business man...this link gives you a little bit of how you can be successfull both in online and offline businesses....

How to Create a Comfortable Business Space

you are able to keep your business space organized and clean your customers will be happy. If they feel welcome and comfortable in the space, they are more likely to shop with you. It will take some work but you can create a business space that feels as welcome as a home for you, your employees and your clients. You may need to make a few upgrades like adding brochure displays or brochure holders, some new shelving, or additional storage space. Organizing is a great way to feel better about your business space and keep your customers coming back for more. It can be surprising how your surroundings make you feel and how eager they make your customers to shop.




Your first step to having an organized business is obvious: keep your customer space organized and clean. This is the main part of your business your customers see, so if the area is cluttered and makes no sense, it will deter them from shopping. Make sure your store's showroom is pleasant, attractive, and easy to shop.



Next, make sure your office space is organized. If this area is cluttered it will eventually show in your customer areas. Even if the customer never sees your stockroom or workspace, they will get a sensed for how organized you are as a business person. If the behind the scenes area is comfortable and neat, your organization and peace of mind will spill into your business overall.



It is also important to keep things clean in your workspace and store. Just because an area is organized does not mean it is actually clean. You will need to take time to polish, shine, dust, sweep, and disinfect the areas of your store that are frequented by employees and customers. If areas are exposed to a variety of people it means they will be exposed to a variety of germs. If you host special events or allow employees to dine in certain areas, be sure food and spills are cleaned up. The last thing you need is ants and other pests entering an area while clients are in a space. If you host special events in your store where you will be serving snacks or cake, make sure you schedule time after the event ends to clean more than usual. Also be sure you empty the garbage on the daily basis to keep food smells to a minimum in the space.



Finally, be sure your space is comfortable and pleasant. Take a look at the colors in your store and workspace. It is important for them to be bright and cheerful. You want your employees to feel happy and comfortable while working so they have a good attitude when dealing with customers. You also want you customers to feel welcomed into a space, and bright colors and good lighting will help this. Change any burned out lights in the space, attempt to bring bright, natural light into the area, and be sure the room has a pleasant smell.



Connor R. Sullivan recently purchased and set up several brochure holders introducing the high school musical to the community. His wife ordered brochure displays to hold information about her new boutique.



Article Source: http://EzineArticles
.com